I have found that the saying “I never said it would be easy, only that it would be worth it” can be applied to many different periods in my life. This time however, I am finding it true when it comes to being a mom and this especially challenging phase Brooke is in. We’ve been so busy this summer I’ve gotten into the habit of packing little baggies of snack food to take with us in the car and while we are out. Now I feel like that has come back to bite me in a big way. At her 15-month appointment, my doctor warned me that babies can start to become pickier eaters. I never knew how true that was. What happened to my good little eater? Brooke, who used to eat anything and everything we put in front of her, now barely touches anything at all. She wants milk and snacks and that’s it. Her longtime favorites she just throws on the floor or barely takes two bites of and she refuses to touch any veggies altogether. Last night she happily ate up some BBQ chicken we were feeding her and I was so excited. I saved some leftovers for her to eat today and when I tried to get her to eat it, she stuck her nose up at it. She no longer wants water in her sippie cup, just milk or juice. What’s the deal?! I am going crazy trying to figure out what she will eat. Here’s a typical menu:
Breakfast: sippie cup of milk, small handful of dry cereal (maybe) and half a waffle (maybe)
Lunch: ??? Totally depends on the day. Maybe a thing of string cheese or yogurt, some grapes, and a few bites of Vienna sausage if I’m lucky
Dinner: ??? Maybe some pasta or a tiny bit of whatever we’re eating
but some days I feel like she literally eats nothing. Oh, but she’s always up for eating snacks or some dessert. I’ve been trying to be better about not having as many snacky foods during the day so she’ll eat better at meals, but I don’t feel like that is helping. It also doesn’t help when Brooke will come up and sign to me that she is hungry so I’ll put her in the highchair, give her something to eat, and then she won’t want it. So I get her out and she’ll come up to me a few minutes later signing again that she is hungry! I think when she does this, she is expecting snack foods like goldfish or a juicebox and doesn’t want any real food I try to give her. I’m fine with snacks, just not all day long!
It’s so frustrating trying to guess at each meal what Brooke will actually want to eat and having most of it end up on the floor anyway. I’m also going crazy stressing over her getting a balanced diet. What can I do?