Okay, this post has many different aspects to it. One, Brooke is on a major naughty streak right now and I don't know what to do about it. 1) She cut her barbie's hair 2) she's drawn on her closet wall and on her slide
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okay, so this is cute and we'll probably keep this but STILL,
drawing on things is naughty! |
3) she went outside and broke the branches off our little apple fruit tree (We flipped out over this because now our beloved fruit tree is probably ruined)
4) she's been on a kick about having a major fit when we tell her no
What are we to do? After the fruit tree incident, Blake made her work outside with him for two days picking up leaves. I am also thinking of putting some kind of prize up on the fridge for her to earn if she behaves and doesn't have any timeouts that day. I also know that we need to give more positive praise and have more positive interactions with her, and we do try to do that. We make an effort to play candyland or watch special movies with popcorn with her after Porter goes to bed. Anything we're missing here?
I know there is a nice girl in there somewhere. She occasionally comes out. Like in these pictures taken on St. Patrick's Day.
And speaking of holidays, have you read
this article? So many things I agree with in her writing about holidays. Espeically how they are getting seriously crazy with the amount of work/time/money people are starting to put into them. It makes me wonder if we are doing it for the kids or to impress/compete with the other parents in the keeping up with Jones's/facebook/blogging/pinterest world we now live in.
This article and those thoughts were for me. So please don't be offended if you love to go crazy during the holidays. No judgement from me. I just remember last year on St. Patrick's day looking on FB at all these photos of leprechaun footprints and furniture upside down and feeling like the world's worst mom because all I did was dress my kids in green. I didn't even have enough creativity to dye the milk green! Then I see how other holidays have become like mini Christmases (or just like Christmas) and I feel all this pressure to perform so my kid doesn't feel jipped. I am now realizing that I just need to do my best and not give in to that pressure, especially when it goes against what I want my children to know/learn about that holiday. There may be certain traditions i start with my kids, and i need to figure out my limits. Okay, I am done with my rant.
And finally, speaking of holidays, I do like to celebrate and be festive although my craftiness is pretty limited. I just took down my one Valentine's Day decoration a week ago and put up my one Easter decoration. See, like I said: limited
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